Stick to your priorities during divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 8, 2022 | Divorce |

Going through a divorce will be one of the most challenging processes in your life. However, you can make decisions that ensure the rest of your life does not have to be so difficult.

It is easy to feel bogged down by all the moving parts at the end of your marriage, but the key is to stay focused on the most critical aspects. Continue reading to learn how to prioritize during your divorce, so you do not make a mistake you regret for years.

Understand your finances

Sometimes emotions get in the way of good decision-making. If you calm down and look at the big picture, you should see that your finances are a top priority. According to Hawaii statutes, the court attempts to decide on property division based on what is just and equitable. It is common for one spouse to oversee finances during the marriage. However, each party must disclose all relevant marital property during the divorce process, including finances. If you believe your spouse might attempt to hide their assets, consider hiring an accountant to do an audit.

Think about every decision

Even if you have a clear picture of your finances, you might still make a mistake and agree to unfavorable terms. Take time before signing any terms. If you want to try mediation, keep communication open with your ex-spouse. This is the best way to reach a compromise that both sides agree with.

Divorce is always difficult. Try to work with your ex-spouse and stick to your highest priority goals to alleviate the stress of the process.